43| Choosing Marriage and How to Make it Work - Alex Allman

In this episode Alex Allman gives advice on:

- Alex Allman's recent marriage and his dating and relationship lifestyle over the last 15 years.

- "I'm not a PUA, I'm terrible at cold approach." Learning to cold approach isn't necessary to meet lots of women.

- Pre-conventional, conventional and post-conventional monogamy and polygamy.

- Men cheating on their women is the societal norm.

- The level of openness in your sexual communication and how it defines your relationship.

- Post conventional morality, empathy and its connection with 100% love.

- The swinger community as an example of conventional polyamory.

- Different dating lifestyles for different stages of life. The 20s, 30s and 40s.

- Steve Pavlina case study: From monogamous marriage, to polyamorous marriage to divorce and single life polyamory.

- The decision to marry - how does it come about?

- The more committed you are to a relationship the more pain you expose yourself to.

- Choosing women with equal or greater "Self awareness" than you as partners.

- Insights into the mindsets towards many women of men today from what is currently working in the marketing world.

- The control mentality that the pickup artist community has given to some men.

- The fundamental role of sex in marriage to work on and improve communication.

- Pushing sexual boundaries. What it really means - not about "dressing up as furry animals".

- How to stop sex getting boring: Excavating your personal identity through your sexual relationship with your partner.

- A woman's love for you is sustained by your love. But only when it's pure.

- Alex Allman's top 3 recommendations to men to work on to take their relationship lifestyle to success as fast as possible.

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