There comes a time in every woman’s life where she finally believes wholeheartedly that she is going to be a wife.

Sometimes it happens on her way up down the aisle.

But usually, it happens somewhere between heartbreak and daydream.

For me, it happened while I was still very young and naive. I just knew that I was meant to be married. That the best version of myself happened to include being a wife and mother.

But that awareness was often also driven by fear.

Because I also thought that being a wife and mother was somehow better than being me here and now. That it was better than being single.

As a result, I had a tendency to rush. I threw myself into relationships and went on crazy wild searches for my better half.

You must be wondering, how did I make that transition from desperate searching to a solid Christ-centered relationship?

Well my friend, it all started when I learned how to listen to and trust Christ within, instead of all the voices on the outside.

It all boils down to this…

My mom, friends, mentors, and pastors all love me deeply and want the very best for me. There are books and sermons, Youtube videos, and courses that will teach you how to prepare for marriage.

But at the end of the day, there is Christ on the inside who is willing and able to direct your steps.

In today’s episode, we’re going to talk about how to stop listening to the world and start listening to Christ within.