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Not all families are made by blood—and some of the deepest, most powerful connections we form are the ones we choose. In this episode of Check My Vibe, host Jalen Smith is joined by his cousin and chosen brother, Randall Smith, for a heartfelt conversation on the beauty, depth, and necessity of chosen family.
Together, they explore how queer folks, creatives, and those navigating survival often build family from scratch—through shared experiences, deep loyalty, and unwavering care. From personal stories to cultural context, this episode honors the legacy of chosen families as lifelines in queer communities and celebrates the joy of defining family on your own terms.
Whether you’ve found your chosen family or you’re still building it, this one’s for you.
💬 Topics Include:
The meaning of chosen family
Queer history & survival through community
Creating new traditions and safe spaces
How to recognize & nurture chosen bonds
Personal reflections from Jalen & Randall on love, brotherhood, and showing up
📩 Listener Prompt:
Who in your life feels like chosen family? What have they taught you about love, safety, or belonging? DM or voice message us—we’d love to hear your story.
🎧 Stay tuned for the season finale next week on belonging—and how to create spaces where you truly matter.
By Smit_Not all families are made by blood—and some of the deepest, most powerful connections we form are the ones we choose. In this episode of Check My Vibe, host Jalen Smith is joined by his cousin and chosen brother, Randall Smith, for a heartfelt conversation on the beauty, depth, and necessity of chosen family.
Together, they explore how queer folks, creatives, and those navigating survival often build family from scratch—through shared experiences, deep loyalty, and unwavering care. From personal stories to cultural context, this episode honors the legacy of chosen families as lifelines in queer communities and celebrates the joy of defining family on your own terms.
Whether you’ve found your chosen family or you’re still building it, this one’s for you.
💬 Topics Include:
The meaning of chosen family
Queer history & survival through community
Creating new traditions and safe spaces
How to recognize & nurture chosen bonds
Personal reflections from Jalen & Randall on love, brotherhood, and showing up
📩 Listener Prompt:
Who in your life feels like chosen family? What have they taught you about love, safety, or belonging? DM or voice message us—we’d love to hear your story.
🎧 Stay tuned for the season finale next week on belonging—and how to create spaces where you truly matter.