H!!! everyone,

I pray all is well with you allll!

Dating in your 20's can seems like a nightmare however what if God never told you to date but instead court.

Come with me as I interview TJ and Thomas for some insight.

Lets try and survive part 1 together!

Interview: How to court as a Christian

Tj - @iwastj

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Thomas - @nycc.tommy

1. Backstory & Context

- Briefly share the relationship background

Courting vs Dating exchange expectation + alignment (Christian Perspective)

- Define courting vs dating  

- Dating: feelings, vibes, convenience.  

- Courting: intention, purpose, alignment.

Prey vs pray

-Stalking opp

Seeking guidance 

- How each affects expectations, boundaries, and intentions  

- Why Christians must be intentional, not impulsive

- learn how both give and take constructive criticism  

- Attraction to flesh vs attraction to God’s attributes  

- How your partner handles insecurity, emergencies, and responsibility

 - compare morals, values, and spiritual maturity.  *equally yoked*

Source of advice: God's words and Godly people seek help before you need it #intercessed

2. Trust & Compatibility

- learn How to build trust in each other 

-Talk and bring up things that a highly important  

- learn and talk about insecurities 

- Importance of moral compatibility  

- Regrouping your thoughts and admitting wrong  

- Understanding your “conditioned love” vs real love  

- Duty vs romance — what was missing?