In this Christmas special of Yes to I Do, host Lydia Wakefield is joined by Meg, Maggie and Louisa in the Main Oak Barn, chatting all things winter and December weddings at Coton House Farm. Warmed by the log burner (and plenty of festive energy), they explore what makes winter weddings feel so intimate and cosy, how the venue works brilliantly in colder months (covered outdoor areas, patio heaters and twinkly lights), and the fun seasonal touches couples can add, from LED candles and deep colour palettes to Santa appearances, sleighs and hot chocolate favours.

Key Takeaways

The team agree winter has a different kind of magic: darker evenings, warm lighting, log burners, and that natural urge to be surrounded by friends and family. It’s a relaxed, snuggly atmosphere compared to the bright, outdoorsy feel of summer.

Even in colder weather, guests can still enjoy the outdoor areas because they’re covered and heated (patio heaters plus undercover walkways between spaces). The Main Oak Barn’s lounge area and fires add to the comfort, and blankets can be used outside for extra warmth.

December weddings don’t have to be overtly Christmassy. Couples often lean into cosy styling (LED candles, warm lighting, deep winter tones), but many still use non-seasonal palettes like sage green, lilac and bright florals. There are no rules.

Ideas mentioned include holly in florals, gold accents, velvet and sparkly outfits, Santa hats for the photo booth, cloaks/shawls for bridesmaids, crackers on tables, mistletoe moments, bauble name cards, and cute favours like hot chocolate packs or candy canes. (And yes, they’ve got couples bringing a sleigh and even Santa!)

Best Moments

“December is a lovely time to get married… winter feels a lot cosier.”

“Christmas is a feeling… it doesn’t have to be super duper festive for it to be really lovely and cosy.”

“Just because it’s winter, you’re not restricted to just having to stay inside.”

“Do December weddings have to be Christmassy?… Definitely no.”

“Bring a coat… it is crisp at that time of year, but that’s what makes it so lovely.”

About Coton House Farm

Set in the stunning Staffordshire countryside, Coton House Farm is an exclusive, luxury wedding barn venue designed for couples seeking a magical and unforgettable celebration. With beautifully restored barns, scenic outdoor spaces, and flexible layouts, it offers a seamless experience from morning preparations in The Stables to a breathtaking ceremony and lively reception. Whether you choose an elegant indoor setting or a picturesque outdoor backdrop, Coton House Farm provides the perfect setting for your dream wedding, filled with romance and charm.

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