When Christy and Jameson Haygood married in 2012, Christy was training in gynecologic oncology. Jameson, then a pharmaceutical sales rep, was excited to see if he could match her income. Today, things are different: Jameson’s typical weekday involves hosting a weekday radio show and taking care of the kids. Christy cares for cancer patients, with little flexibility during the workday. But both Jameson and Christy are providers. In Jameson’s words, the question is, “What are you providing?”