That harm can take on various forms. For example, someone may have manipulated others for personal profit or power. Someone may have used their position to cover sexual abuse or assault.

Someone may have rejected others because of race, sexual orientation, political affiliation, or economic standing in the community. In addition, someone may have directly or indirectly betrayed a person’s trust.

Sometimes the harm is unintentional, an act of omission or carelessness.

As Christ-followers, we don’t want to take responsibility for our complicity in church hurt. It is easier to blame the problem on someone else. Conclusion: It is time for us to acknowledge when we harm others, apologize and change our behavior, and give the wounded time and space for healing.

If you have experienced church hurt, let me offer my sincere apologies. The Church is supposed to be a place of healing and refuge, and there is no valid excuse for the harm done to you by the Church."