• Examine the WOUND: Do I KNOW the TRUE NATURE of the offense?

• Examine my HEART: Am I WILLING and READY to DEAL with the offense?
— Matthew 5:23-24 NIV
— Matthew 7:1-2 NIV

• Examine my APPROACH: HOW am I MOVING TOWARD my offender?
— Luke 17:3 NIV

** EXTRA RESOURCES **
"The Peacemaker" by Ken Sande
"How to Stop the Pain" by Dr. James Richards
"I Should Forgive, but . . ." by Dr. Chuck Lynch