Key Points, Top Takeaways and Memorable Quotes - 

“Where can I make a direct impact?” 3:30

“My ex and I went to coparenting therapy and I recommend this to all clients that have a contentious relationship where there’s a child involved.” 6:25

“If this is really about your child, and you have to be reflective, you have to be introspective, then you will do everything and anything to ensure your child’s wellbeing.” 8:47

“When you communicate with your problematic ex, you need to keep it short, simple, sweet because you have to keep in mind that every written communication that you have with your ex will be under the microscope, it will be viewed by the courts.” 10:01

“I say short, simple, sweet.” 10:56

“Let the other party’s actions speak for themselves.” 12:52

“I feel like the crux of a lot of these pitfalls comes from not giving yourself the space and the grace to properly grieve.” 13:20

“That’s a very common pitfall that I see is trying to dictate what the other parent does.” 15:39

“The courts want to maintain the status quo if it’s working for the children.” - Ann Grant 21:54

“It’s in the best interest of a child to have time with both parents.” 25:27

“One of the things that I had to do was really silence the voices of others’ around me.” 29:56

Guest Bio - Since 2013, Sarah has exclusively practiced family law across California, representing clients from case inception through trial. A skilled litigator who prioritizes efficient, strategic resolutions, she handles custody, support, move-away cases, and complex asset issues with care. Sarah also advises on prenups, postnups, and cohabitation agreements. As a child of refugees and a co-parent herself, she brings empathy, cultural awareness, and fierce advocacy to every case—treating her clients’ matters as if they were her own.

Show Notes - 

0:00 - Divorce Hacker Intro

0:50 - Introducing Sarah Ho

1:40 - Why Did You Choose Family Law?

6:06 - How Does Your Personal CoParenting Experience Impact Your Work with Clients?

9:11 - Helpful Communication Skills When Coparenting with a Problematic Ex

13:09 - Biggest Mistake Divorcing & Separating Parents Make

18:32 - 50/50 Custody & Issues Concerning A Child's Health, Safety, & Welfare

29:38 - Additional Considerations for CoParenting

32:49 - Thank You & Divorce Hacker Closing

For more about Ann Grant, Sarah Ho and Family Law Center of Southern California, please visit: 

https://www.famlawsc.com/