Most couples think their problem is communication. It’s not.

It’s how they approach decisions, conflict, and responsibility in the relationship.

In this episode, we talk with G. Scott Graham about the “co-pilot” mindset—and why most couples are stuck negotiating, avoiding, or forcing outcomes instead of actually working together.

We get into:

• Why negotiation isn’t the goal in marriage

• What “turbulence” looks like in real life

• Why couples wait too long to have hard conversations

• The difference between love and commitment

• The patterns couples fall into (and how to break them)

If your relationship feels off but you can’t quite explain why… this conversation will help you see it clearly.