Here are the verse used during this week's coffee time: 

But the wisdom that comes from heaven is first of all pure; then peace-loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere.  James 3:17 https://my.bible.com/bible/111/JAS.3.17  

If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you. James 1:5 https://my.bible.com/bible/111/JAS.1.5  

My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, James 1:19 https://my.bible.com/bible/111/JAS.1.19  

Do everything without grumbling or arguing, so that you may become blameless and pure “children of God without fault in a warped and crooked generation.” Then you will shine among them like stars in the sky Philippians 2:14-15 https://my.bible.com/bible/111/PHP.2.14-15