What is his or her intentions in your life? Whether it’s a family friend or significant other you need to know the intentions. Now let’s be honest, people are not going to blatantly state their intentions most of the time because they honestly don’t know. But in order for you to know you have to step back and observe and ignore the words. A person can come off loving and caring but intentions are selfish. And a person can come off a little rigid but their intentions are pure. Don’t throw away good people because of your own insecure reflection. Instead realize that that person is flawed like you and observe their intentions.