Judging and criticizing people isn't help as a matter of fact sometimes it just makes things worse. If there is a problem it needs to be solved and taken care of. If progress is to be made we have to move past finger pointing and casting blame and see how we can work together to make the progress happen. Sharing stories from the past does nothing to solve the problem either unless there is some tangible uses of the story and it's not just said to pontificate. We have to get rid of unhelpful habits that just perpetuate cycles of trauma, ignorance, and abuse and move into healing and helping. 

You can find it here on YouTube as well: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WC6ow-Mz0k4