It is very vital that there is good communication between husband and wife. There must be a set of common understanding of values and principles that both husband and wife should adhere to.

A good process is to always convey your thoughts and plans you would like to accomplish to your spouse and gain his/her consent. This is not done because one spouse is superior to the other but rather out of respect and the avoidance of disunity in the marriage. If you and your spouse are in agreement, then there will be no conflicts in your marriage.

What if you disagree with your spouse? In such cases, you must explain why you are in disagreement and then come to a mutual understanding and compromise on the issue or task at hand. Many times we may need to see things from the viewpoint of our spouse as they may see what we do not. Sometimes we are saved from troubles because we discussed issues with our spouse.