Have you ever been guilty of comparing yourself to someone? I most definitely have done this. The truth is we are all one of a kind, different, special, unique, beautiful, handsome, valuable and precious. We are not supposed to be like anyone else because we were not created to be. So stop torturing yourself because you want to be like someone else. Whatever changes you want to make in your life make preparation for the change, do the work, study, exercise, save for it and make the change.