In this provocative and educational episode of "Confession Time," hosts Miss Red Ness and Ieva Oshun welcome special guest Flame Hel. Unlike their previous episode featuring a submissive who discovered her kinks later in life, Flame provides the opposite perspective as a lifelong dominant.

Flame discusses his evolution from those early exploratory days to becoming a well-known figure on the fetish scene —running dungeon, organizing fetish events, doing Shibari performances.

The conversation delves into thought-provoking topics including:

• The qualities that make a good dominant and submissive
• The differences between being a submissive and a slave
• How dominants should handle communication breakdowns
• The importance of self-awareness in BDSM relationships
• How to recognize red flags in potential partners
• The emotional challenges dominants face

In the latter part of the episode, Flame reveals his recent career as an adult entertainer, discussing his approach to ethical porn production and announcing his upcoming return to Latvia for the "Baltic Summer of Hel 2025" event series.

This episode offers valuable insights for both newcomers and experienced practitioners in the kink community, emphasizing safety, honest communication, and the importance of understanding one's true desires and boundaries.

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