Have you ever heard the advice, "have a baby! It'll make you and your partner stronger!" Or my favorite, " a baby changes everything!" (With heart emojis in their eyes. LIES! ALL. LIES! Having a baby DOES in fact change everything (but certainly not for the better!) And your relationship CAN get stronger...If you WORK at it! Check out this episode of Confessions of a Hella Smart Muva, where Nicole discusses some of the ways her marriage changed after having children, and actionable tips to childproof your relationship.