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Back in Episode 083 (https://www.managingacareer.com/83) I talked about how Imposter Syndrome and Fear of Failure can derail your plans for career advancement. This week, I'd like to take a deeper dive at Confidence. Confidence, at it's very basic, is the believe that you will succeed in the current situation. Confidence is not arrogance; but they can be two side of the same coin.
The biggest difference between Confidence and Arrogance is how others react to you and how you treat those around you. When you are confident, you state your case assertively but with respect. If you are arrogant, you will come across as dominating and dismissive. When you are confident, your believe in success can encourage those around you and lead them to want to help. Being arrogant, though, can alienate others when you act superior to them.
So, how does confidence help when it comes to your career?
Some people have what seems to be a natural confidence. You may even think that they were born with that confidence. But, in reality, confidence is a lot like compound interest. When you have a small success, you gain some confidence, which helps you have more success, which leads to more confidence, which leads to more success, and so on and so forth. When someone seems to be naturally confident, it is just that you are seeing them so far past their initial, awkward phase. If you find yourself in a situation where you don't have confidence, as I said in the episode on Imposter Syndrome, set as small of a goal as you can; make success almost a guaranteed outcome. Your confidence will build and grow much like a snowball rolling down a hill.
Beyond starting with small wins, another confidence building technique is to practice self-affirmation. A negative mindset can erode your confidence. When you find yourself doubting your ability to succeed, you need to act quickly to change your mindset. Make positive statements about yourself, out loud if possible. As you make these statements, take a "superhero pose". You'll be surprised how just holding a powerful pose for a few minutes can boost your confidence.
Another way to build confidence is to reach out to your mentors and leaders to ask for constructive feedback. They can help you identify the things you are good at (the beginning of your confidence snowball) and how those strengths are positive for the team. This assessment can be a big confidence boost. They can also help you plan your next areas of growth. Competence builds confidence; the stronger you are in particular skill, the more confident you will be when using the skill. Never stop learning and refining your abilities.
Where are you in your confidence journey? Are you just starting or have you already banked some successes? Regardless of where you are, a career coach can help you build your confidence. If you need a career coach, reach out to me via the Contact Form at ManagingACareer.com (https://www.managingacareer.com/contact/). I'll schedule an introductory session where we can talk about your career goals and determine if we would be a good fit for coaching. If we are, we can arrange regular sessions to help you put your career on the fast track to advancement.
Back in Episode 083 (https://www.managingacareer.com/83) I talked about how Imposter Syndrome and Fear of Failure can derail your plans for career advancement. This week, I'd like to take a deeper dive at Confidence. Confidence, at it's very basic, is the believe that you will succeed in the current situation. Confidence is not arrogance; but they can be two side of the same coin.
The biggest difference between Confidence and Arrogance is how others react to you and how you treat those around you. When you are confident, you state your case assertively but with respect. If you are arrogant, you will come across as dominating and dismissive. When you are confident, your believe in success can encourage those around you and lead them to want to help. Being arrogant, though, can alienate others when you act superior to them.
So, how does confidence help when it comes to your career?
Some people have what seems to be a natural confidence. You may even think that they were born with that confidence. But, in reality, confidence is a lot like compound interest. When you have a small success, you gain some confidence, which helps you have more success, which leads to more confidence, which leads to more success, and so on and so forth. When someone seems to be naturally confident, it is just that you are seeing them so far past their initial, awkward phase. If you find yourself in a situation where you don't have confidence, as I said in the episode on Imposter Syndrome, set as small of a goal as you can; make success almost a guaranteed outcome. Your confidence will build and grow much like a snowball rolling down a hill.
Beyond starting with small wins, another confidence building technique is to practice self-affirmation. A negative mindset can erode your confidence. When you find yourself doubting your ability to succeed, you need to act quickly to change your mindset. Make positive statements about yourself, out loud if possible. As you make these statements, take a "superhero pose". You'll be surprised how just holding a powerful pose for a few minutes can boost your confidence.
Another way to build confidence is to reach out to your mentors and leaders to ask for constructive feedback. They can help you identify the things you are good at (the beginning of your confidence snowball) and how those strengths are positive for the team. This assessment can be a big confidence boost. They can also help you plan your next areas of growth. Competence builds confidence; the stronger you are in particular skill, the more confident you will be when using the skill. Never stop learning and refining your abilities.
Where are you in your confidence journey? Are you just starting or have you already banked some successes? Regardless of where you are, a career coach can help you build your confidence. If you need a career coach, reach out to me via the Contact Form at ManagingACareer.com (https://www.managingacareer.com/contact/). I'll schedule an introductory session where we can talk about your career goals and determine if we would be a good fit for coaching. If we are, we can arrange regular sessions to help you put your career on the fast track to advancement.