In this episode, Umar Hameed speaks with Matthew Hill about confidence as a learnable skill, not a personality trait.

They break down the difference between inner confidence (being prepared, grounded, and calm) and outer confidence (how others experience you), and how leaders can help people perform beyond their own perceived limits.

The conversation explores practical ways memory, NLP, and hypnosis can be used to strengthen confidence, reduce anxiety, and improve performance.

Matthew shares real examples—from helping students and his own children perform better in exams, to using unconscious techniques in environments where “hypnosis” carried stigma.

Together, they clarify the difference between NLP and hypnosis, how embedded commands work, and why working with the unconscious mind can resolve fear more effectively than logic alone.

Umar and Matthew also discuss public speaking, rapport-building, reframing fear as excitement, managing self-doubt, and why honesty, preparation, and pre-connection with an audience matter more than performance tactics.

The episode closes with reflections on learning, communication, and using influence responsibly.

A practical, thoughtful conversation for leaders, sales professionals, and speakers who want real confidence without theatrics.