THE MEANING OF MARRIAGE - As Christians we enter all our relationships as realists. We know there is a depth of depravity bound up in the heart of every husband and every wife that no amount of counselling or therapy can untangle but through Christ. Transforming love is the only thing that will change your spouse, the offering of submission and grace from Christ in your words and actions. In that way you have the best way of changing your spouse and growing your own life in Christ-likeness at the same time.