This blog post by a dating and sex coach describes how holding onto material possessions from a past relationship can hinder personal growth and prevent new relationships from flourishing. The author uses her own experience of struggling to let go of belongings after her divorce to illustrate how clinging to the past can suffocate the present and prevent a person from fully embracing a new life. She argues that by clearing physical clutter and embracing the letting-go process, one can create space for personal growth and new relationships.