Matthew Everhard

Confronting Spiritual Narcissists. [Sermon]. Romans 14:13-23.


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Spiritual Narcissism & Christian Love | Romans 14:13–23 Sermon

What does the Bible teach about Christian liberty, church unity, and love for weaker brothers? In this sermon on Romans 14:13–23, we confront a subtle but dangerous sin in the church: spiritual narcissism.

Drawing from the Apostle Paul’s teaching on disputable matters—such as food sacrificed to idols—we discover how everyday choices can either build up the church or destroy the work of God. Through the lens of the cross of Christ, this message calls believers to walk in love, pursue peace, and resist self-centered Christianity.

Key Themes in This Sermon

  • Romans 14 explained verse by verse
  • Christian liberty vs. Christian love
  • The danger of spiritual narcissism in the church
  • “For whom Christ died” — understanding the atonement
  • Weak and strong consciences in Romans
  • Why church unity matters more than personal preferences
  • Walking in love, peace, and joy in the Holy Spirit
  • How selfishness can destroy the work of God

Sermon Summary

Using the ancient myth of Narcissus as an illustration, this message exposes how believers can become overly focused on themselves—even in spiritual matters. Paul’s warning is sobering: “By what you eat, do not destroy the one for whom Christ died.” Every brother and sister in Christ is someone purchased by the blood of Jesus, and our conduct must reflect that reality.

This sermon will challenge you to:

  • Examine how your actions affect other believers
  • Reorder your loves according to biblical priorities
  • Live with the cross—not personal preference—at the center
  • Pursue peace and mutual upbuilding in the local church


Scripture Focus

📖 Romans 14:13–23

📖 Galatians 2:20

📖 Matthew 20:28

📖 John 10; John 17


Who This Message Is For

  • Christians struggling with church conflict
  • Believers wrestling with liberty and conscience
  • Pastors, elders, and church leaders
  • Anyone seeking deeper biblical unity and humility


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Matthew EverhardBy Dr. Matthew V Everhard

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