Most men were taught that leadership looks like sacrifice.
 Work longer. Carry more. Say less.

And for a long time, that belief feels right.

In this episode, we explore how many of us quietly replaced leadership with endurance — and why silent sacrifice can feel strong while slowly creating distance at home.

This isn’t an argument against sacrifice.
 And it’s not about doing less or putting everything on someone else.

It’s about asking a harder question:
 Who are we actually leading when we carry everything alone?

If you’ve ever believed that absorbing pressure quietly was the same thing as leading, this conversation will challenge that assumption — not with advice, but with clarity.