Connection Over Competition: Female Empowerment & Building Your Tribe

Michelle and Nicola are joined by special guest co-host Debbie Firmstone for a warm, wide-ranging conversation about female solidarity, the power of women's networking, and why connection always beats competition.

In This Episode:

🎉 What We've Been Up To The girls catch up on life before diving in — from promoting the Big Business Event across Lincolnshire and getting stands ready (yes, there will be cookies 🍪), to a weekend in York, a drag show in Grantham, a washed-out track day, a beach trip to Mablethorpe, and cocktail week shenanigans in York.

🤝 Connection Over Competition The main topic: why women's networking isn't what you might fear. All three share how they expected judgment and competition when they started their businesses — and found the complete opposite. Women's networking groups offer honesty, emotional support, and a safe space to share ideas without the broadcast-and-sell energy of mixed networking rooms.

🐝 Ladies in the Hive Debbie talks about her women-only networking group, Ladies in the Hive — the relaxed venues, the introductions, the vibe. No testosterone, no hard pitching, just genuine connection. She also shares details on her upcoming Women's World Weekender (business workshops, speakers, an 80s/90s disco, and more).

🌍 Mediterranean Retreat Debbie is heading back to Corfu — where she used to live — for a business retreat with workshops in the morning and pool time in the afternoon. Two spaces left! Find out more at queenbeeandco.co.uk

📣 Blow Your Own Trumpet A conversation about self-promotion, self-doubt, and why women need to own their achievements — because if you don't say it, nobody else will (until they eventually do it for you).

😂 Off-Topic But Brilliant The episode takes a detour into: drag queens and why men doing it is funny when women doing the same thing wouldn't be, Rachel Reeves crying in Parliament, stranger-on-a-train connections, holding a stranger's hand on a plane… and whether you'd expect someone to pay on a first date (discount vouchers: red flag or fine?). Michael Portillo's trousers also get a mention.

Find Debbie & Her Events: 🌐 queenbeeandco.co.uk — Women's World Weekender, Big Business Event, Ladies in the Hive

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