What if you’re not behind? What if you’re trying to make the wrong path work? Kyle Fasano joins Josh to talk about dropping out of college, feeling lost while everyone else seemed to be moving ahead, forcing careers that never felt right, and what changed when he finally gave the thing he actually loved a chance.
Kyle went to college because it felt like what he was supposed to do.
He did not know what he wanted. His grades kept dropping. Baseball disappeared. University became community college. Eventually, college ended altogether.
Then he tried real estate.
For years, Kyle kept hoping a career he did not enjoy would eventually click.
It never did.
The thing he kept coming back to was fitness.
He would leave the real estate office to train. People started asking him for help because they thought he was already a trainer. And eventually, Kyle stopped forcing the path he thought he should follow and gave the one he actually cared about a chance.
In this episode of Conquer Stories, Kyle talks about feeling behind while other people seemed to be hitting all the milestones, working jobs that did not fit, partying through some of the uncertainty, and learning that work ethic only gets you so far when you are moving in the wrong direction.
They also get into the pressure to have your life figured out early.
College.
Career.
Money.
Marriage.
A house.
All the things that can make you wonder what is wrong with you when everyone else seems to be moving forward.
Kyle did not have it figured out.
Neither did Josh.
And the years that felt like detours became part of what shaped both of them.
Today, Kyle is in Los Angeles, married, self-employed, and has built a career helping people through fitness.
His advice to the version of himself who felt lost is simple:
Find what you love. Cut out the noise. Go all in.
Not because it suddenly becomes easy.
Because there is a difference between working through something hard that matters to you and forcing yourself through a life you never wanted.
YOUR NEXT STEP
Take an honest look at where you are right now.
What am I doing because I want it?
What am I doing because I think I should?
What am I forcing because I keep hoping it will eventually feel right?
What keeps pulling me back because I actually care about it?
You do not need your entire life figured out today.
But you can stop pretending the wrong direction is working.
Share what you are conquering with us. Someone may need to hear something you have to say.
CHAPTERS
00:00 What Will You Leave in the Light?
00:27 Meet Kyle Fasano
02:07 What Does It Mean to Conquer?
02:44 Kyle’s College Dropout Story
03:58 When College Wasn’t Working
04:54 What Do You Do Without a Degree?
05:33 Trying to Make the Wrong Career Work
06:01 When Fitness Started Pulling Him In
06:39 Finding a Path You Actually Want
07:38 Watching Everyone Else Move Ahead
08:14 Work Ethic Without Direction
09:47 Going Backward Before Moving Forward
10:22 Finding Something You Actually Enjoy
11:04 Why Training Is About More Than Fitness
12:14 What Being Lost Looked Like
13:17 When the Gym Became the Escape
14:08 Waiting for the Wrong Career to Click
14:30 How We Cope When We Feel Lost
15:55 What Changed When Josh Found His Path
17:23 What Kyle Would Tell His Younger Self
17:35 Stop Doing What You Think You Should
18:32 What His Younger Self Would Say Now
19:12 The Detour Was Part of the Path
19:49 Why Your Story Can Help Someone Else
20:07 What Comes Next
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CREDITS
Hosted by Josh Yakes
Guest: Kyle Fasano (@fasano_fitness)
Produced by Mike Axe
Edited by Derek Kedell
Dictate your own outcome. Conquer all things.