Connexions

100: Controlling Fear

11.26.2022 - By Jodi HildebrandtPlay

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Most people confuse control with only those who control nations, big corporations, and armies as being controlling. The reality is that all of us can and are controlling. Control is the opposite of freedom. And freedom allows us to connect. Control is the manifestation of disconnection.

Control is an illusion and a distortion. In Reality, we are not in control of much in our lives. We cannot control our health, our life/death, even our own heartbeat. And we certainly cannot control anything outside of ourselves, such as our environment, other people, circumstances, events and outcomes. 

Surrender is being willing to acknowledge and accept the Reality: the outcomes of life that are presented to me, as well as the outcomes of my own choices. Surrendering means letting go of (not controlling or avoid­ing) my expectations, wants, desired outcomes, discomforts, pain, re­sentments, limitations, traumas, etc.

Jodi gives personal experiences of how she has controlled and surrendered during her life. She truly cares for those who struggle with control and knows that there is a way out. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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