In this episode of Detours, we take a closer look at what might be quietly destroying our relationships — the way we talk (and don’t talk) to each other. From topping other people’s stories to scrolling on a phone while someone’s sharing their heart, these small habits send a loud message: you don’t matter. We’ll explore how true friendship isn’t about fixing or advising, but about showing up, listening well, and making people feel seen.

If you’ve ever walked away from a conversation feeling unheard — or worried you’ve made someone else feel that way — this one’s for you.