In this episode, Johan and his guest explore the multifaceted world of bating, discussing personal journeys, the dynamics of long-distance relationships, and the differences between in-person and online experiences.

They delve into the intricacies of edging, orgasm control, and the concept of ruined orgasms, while also highlighting the importance of educational spaces within the community.

The discussion takes a significant turn as they address the experiences of people of color in predominantly white spaces, emphasizing the need for inclusivity and understanding.

In this episode, Johan and Scott dive into a candid conversation about identity, self-discovery, and the unique experiences within the bator community. Scott shares his journey of coming out, the challenges of embracing his true self, and the profound connections he's found through bating. They explore the dynamics of masculinity, the importance of community, and the joy of celebrating one's authentic self...

In this episode, Neptune Simone — Batemates team member and proud bator — opens up to B8tem8te about coming out as a bator to his life partner, introducing him to the practice, and navigating self-acceptance along the way. Together, they talk about finding happiness within the community, the early days of Batemates, and how the app continues to shape the bating world as it grows day by day.

In this conversation, Joel Benjamin discusses his journey in the world of Tantra, the significance of sexual energy, and the importance of mindful practices such as masturbation as a form of self-care....

In this episode, Nick Woof and B8tem8te discuss the evolution of the Bator Bro community from an online masturbation group as the BMC, to in-person events that foster deeper connections among participants. The conversation explores the structure of these events, the importance of creating a welcoming environment, and the unique experiences offered, such as the Tug Rug. The discussion also touches on the significance of age and experience in the community, the role of Strokinut in enhancing pleasure, and the future growth of the Bator Bro event.

BatorBalm anyone? Few are the ones who have never heard of the famous masturbation grease in the Bator community. But do you know about Alex, its founder? In this episode, get the privilege to be a part of the journey of the man who created nothing but a pillar for the community, as he opens up about his personal struggles with shame and the role of supportive partnerships in his journey of entrepreneurship for the community. 

The hottest conversation on the podcast yet. You might wanna find yourself a confortable couch or bed to listen to this one bro cause things could get a little hard on your side once the conversation shifts from theory to practice. I mean..what could happen when 2 bators find themselves talking about bating and start hitting that bottle while putting their rings on? We’ll let you guess…Men will be men after all.

Bros, it’s time we talk about HIV. I had the longest conversation to date on the Batemates podcast because there was so much to learn from JBator Goon about being open about one’s HIV status—and of course, lots of hot talk about kinks, poppers, rivalries, and the connection we all share as bators doing our best to respect everybody in our community. This one is good and interesting and important, and you won’t want to miss it. 

In this engaging conversation, the hosts explore various aspects of masturbation, bating, and the community surrounding these practices. They discuss personal preferences, the role of poppers, and the dynamics within the bating community, including rivalries and the importance of connection. The conversation also delves into the technical features of the Batemates platform and future developments aimed at enhancing user experience. In this conversation, JBatorGoon and B8tem8te explore the themes of community, consent, and the intersection of HIV awareness and sexuality within the bating culture. They discuss the importance of creating safe spaces for individuals to express their desires without stigma, the role of masturbation in personal identity, and the significance of being open about one's HIV status. The dialogue emphasizes the beauty of connection and vulnerability in the bating community, while also addressing the challenges of privacy and consent in a digital age.

In this episode, B8tem8te explores the meaning of gooning—both as a personal experience and a cultural expression within the bator community. Joined by Chris, a dedicated bator and online host, they dive into the significance of gooning, its impact, and what it represents for those who embrace it.

In this engaging podcast episode, host Simon interviews Johan, also known as B8tem8te, a product designer and passionate member of the bating community. Johan shares his personal journey with masturbation, discussing how it has provided him with control and self-discovery, especially after experiencing a toxic relationship. The conversation delves into the perceptions of the bating community within the LGBTQIA+ spectrum, the importance of communication in relationships, and how Johan navigates his current relationship with a fellow bator. He emphasizes the significance of being open about one's sexual preferences and the joy he finds in the bating community. In this conversation, B8tem8te discusses various aspects of bating, including the use of poppers, the thrill of self-pleasure, and the excitement of outdoor bating. He contrasts the experiences of bating in person versus on camera, emphasizing the importance of establishing rules for group bating. B8tem8te also shares insights into the creation of the Batemates platform, the challenges faced in building an adult platform, and the significance of user feedback. He addresses age verification challenges and highlights upcoming features and updates for the Batemates app.

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