BatorBalm anyone? Few are the ones who have never heard of the famous masturbation grease in the Bator community. But do you know about Alex, its founder? In this episode, get the privilege to be a part of the journey of the man who created nothing but a pillar for the community, as he opens up about his personal struggles with shame and the role of supportive partnerships in his journey of entrepreneurship for the community. 

The hottest conversation on the podcast yet. You might wanna find yourself a confortable couch or bed to listen to this one bro cause things could get a little hard on your side once the conversation shifts from theory to practice. I mean..what could happen when 2 bators find themselves talking about bating and start hitting that bottle while putting their rings on? We’ll let you guess…Men will be men after all.

Bros, it’s time we talk about HIV. I had the longest conversation to date on the Batemates podcast because there was so much to learn from JBator Goon about being open about one’s HIV status—and of course, lots of hot talk about kinks, poppers, rivalries, and the connection we all share as bators doing our best to respect everybody in our community. This one is good and interesting and important, and you won’t want to miss it. 

In this engaging conversation, the hosts explore various aspects of masturbation, bating, and the community surrounding these practices. They discuss personal preferences, the role of poppers, and the dynamics within the bating community, including rivalries and the importance of connection. The conversation also delves into the technical features of the Batemates platform and future developments aimed at enhancing user experience. In this conversation, JBatorGoon and B8tem8te explore the themes of community, consent, and the intersection of HIV awareness and sexuality within the bating culture. They discuss the importance of creating safe spaces for individuals to express their desires without stigma, the role of masturbation in personal identity, and the significance of being open about one's HIV status. The dialogue emphasizes the beauty of connection and vulnerability in the bating community, while also addressing the challenges of privacy and consent in a digital age.

In this episode, B8tem8te explores the meaning of gooning—both as a personal experience and a cultural expression within the bator community. Joined by Chris, a dedicated bator and online host, they dive into the significance of gooning, its impact, and what it represents for those who embrace it.

In this engaging podcast episode, host Simon interviews Johan, also known as B8tem8te, a product designer and passionate member of the bating community. Johan shares his personal journey with masturbation, discussing how it has provided him with control and self-discovery, especially after experiencing a toxic relationship. The conversation delves into the perceptions of the bating community within the LGBTQIA+ spectrum, the importance of communication in relationships, and how Johan navigates his current relationship with a fellow bator. He emphasizes the significance of being open about one's sexual preferences and the joy he finds in the bating community. In this conversation, B8tem8te discusses various aspects of bating, including the use of poppers, the thrill of self-pleasure, and the excitement of outdoor bating. He contrasts the experiences of bating in person versus on camera, emphasizing the importance of establishing rules for group bating. B8tem8te also shares insights into the creation of the Batemates platform, the challenges faced in building an adult platform, and the significance of user feedback. He addresses age verification challenges and highlights upcoming features and updates for the Batemates app.

Takeaways

In this engaging conversation, b8tem8te discuss the upcoming Batemates app, its features, and the excitement surrounding its launch. They delve into the importance of community within the bator world, exploring personal niches and the journey into gooning. The discussion highlights the vulnerability and self-exploration involved in gooning, as well as the impact of mainstream culture on this practice. Safety features of the Batemates platform are emphasized, ensuring a secure space for users to connect and explore their kinks. The conversation wraps up with personal experiences and the significance of gear in enhancing the bator experience, showcasing the diversity of kinks and preferences within the community.

In this engaging conversation, SnifferBroSF shares his journey into the world of bating, discussing his experiences, kinks, and the importance of community. The dialogue explores the evolution of bating from high school to the pandemic, the mental and physical health benefits of masturbation, and the dynamics of relationships within the bating community. The conversation also touches on cultural perspectives, the challenges of coming out as a bator, and the excitement surrounding the upcoming Batemates app, designed to connect like-minded individuals.

In this conversation, B8tem8te and BateBanditXL (X/Twitter) discuss their experiences with masturbation and the importance of community. They talk about how masturbation has evolved for them over the years and the role it plays in their sexual exploration and self-discovery as black men. BateBanditXL shares his journey into baiting and the significance of creating a community for bators of color and much more...

In this episode B8tem8te meets with Paxx and Dré (@Paxx_and_Dre on Twitter/X), a Bators couple as they openly discuss their experiences as both bators and partners. They talk about how they balance masturbation with their sexual life and the importance of open communication. They also share their personal journeys of discovering and embracing their identities as bators. The conversation explores the challenges they have faced in previous relationships and the positive impact of being in a relationship with another bator. They discuss the intimate and bonding aspects of masturbation and the love they have for this form of sexual expression. The participants discuss the pleasure and intimacy of masturbation, the ritual and connection with oneself, and the concept of quality time and self-love. They also explore the experience of sharing their bate with others and the affirmation and love received from the community. The conversation delves into the dynamics of sharing the bate as a couple and the challenges and boundaries that come with it and much more...

In this episode, B8tem8te and Unexpected Pig explore the therapeutic and meditative aspect of bating, while our guest opens up about the sensitive topic of being a bator in a relationship. They delve into balancing this aspect of themselves with intercourse in the relationship. This leads to a broader discussion on finding confidence and authenticity through bating, emphasizing the importance of communicating and acceptance in sexual education.