I find that people are like gems.  Some rough, some polished.  If you are walking down the street and you see a shinning gem do you pick it up? Do you pick it up and then decide that it is not big enough, shiny enough, not valuable enough and then toss it away.  Then another person walks by and picks up that same gem and decides it is the perfect gem for them.  

A diamond does not lose its value because you throw it away. It just doesn't have value for you.  In your spring and summer seasons of life many times you wrestle with the "Why". "Why didn't they love me, like me,want me, care about me".  You look in the mirror and think that if you change your hair, your clothes, your weight, your style that you will become "good enough" for that person.  Most of the time it does not work.  Everyone does not value Everyone.  It is sad, but true that you can make yourself over and it still won't work.