In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Dr. Elliott Justin, a physician, entrepreneur, and the founder of FirmTech—a company pioneering sexual wellness and performance through smart ring technology. Together, they discuss men’s health, intimacy, the stigma around erectile dysfunction, and how Dr. Justin’s innovation is changing the conversation around relationships and sexual connection.

Tune in as we explore:

Dr. Justin brings warmth, honesty, and groundbreaking knowledge to a conversation that so many couples shy away from—but desperately need to have.

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💍 Visit FirmTech: www.myfirmtech.com

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Julie Bulitt – Licensed Clinical Social Worker & Family Therapist

David Bulitt – Divorce & Family Lawyer

Welcome to Conversations for Couples — the podcast where Julie and David Bulitt dive into the real conversations that every relationship needs to have. With over 30 years of experience in family therapy and over 35 years in divorce and family law, Julie and David bring their insights into navigating life’s toughest challenges.

In today’s episode, we sit down with Kyle and Vashonda Arrington, a powerhouse couple who’ve been married for 13 years and share their journey from high school sweethearts to building their own successful careers. Kyle, a former New England Patriots Super Bowl champion, and Vashonda, a business executive and entrepreneur, reveal how they balance family, careers, and philanthropy.

Together, they discuss the challenges they’ve faced, the personal growth they’ve experienced, and the transition from Kyle’s football career to life after sports. Kyle shares the emotional rollercoaster of dealing with a career-ending concussion and how his relationship with Vashonda helped him through it.

Vashonda also talks about the powerful work they’re doing with the Evolve Foundation, which is committed to helping marginalized communities through educational initiatives and support programs for children and families.

Tune in for an inspiring conversation about resilience, love, and finding your way through life’s toughest seasons.

🔹 Follow the Evolve Foundation:

Website: www.theevolvefoundation.org

Instagram: @TheEvolveFoundation

Can fighting over text actually help your relationship? Therapist and author Jonathan Van Viegen thinks so—and his no-nonsense, anti-jargon approach to couples therapy is reshaping how partners communicate, connect, and build lasting love.

In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Jonathan to discuss:

Why emotional flooding shuts down productive conversation

The problem with over-focusing on "triggers"

Why traditional therapy labels like "attachment styles" can be harmful

How to shift focus from problems to possibilities

The power of physical connection as a relationship barometer

Jonathan’s take on curiosity, self-reflection, and shared identity

Whether you’re newlyweds or decades in, this conversation challenges the conventional and encourages couples to reimagine how they show up for one another—every single day.

🧠 Learn more about Jonathan: Instagram: @jonathanvanviegen

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In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Jan and Jillian Yuhas—sisters, authors, and relationship consultants behind the book Boundary Badass. Based in Dallas, Jan and Jillian specialize in helping couples navigate communication, conflict, boundaries, and power imbalances—especially during marriage or divorce.

Together, they explore:

Whether you're trying to repair a marriage, end one respectfully, or just deepen your connection, this episode offers practical advice from experts with years of experience.

📘 Check out their book: Boundary Badass

🌐 Learn more at: www.janandjillian.com

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In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bullitt dive into The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt—a powerful and eye-opening look at how the rise of smartphones, social media, and a decline in real-world play are fueling an epidemic of anxiety and depression in kids.

As a family therapist and a divorce lawyer with decades of experience—and as parents and grandparents—Julie and David bring personal stories, professional insight, and practical takeaways to help families navigate modern parenting.

They explore:

If you're raising children, working with kids, or simply wondering what’s changed in the past decade, this is a must-listen.

🎧 Learn more at: www.afloodoflove.com

📲 Follow us on all platforms: @TheBullitts

📖 Book discussed: The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt

In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Kyle and Ariel from Couple Entrepreneurs—a married couple in South Florida who not only run a successful business together but also coach other entrepreneurial couples on how to grow their business without growing apart.

They share their personal journey of moving from the “anti-honeymoon” phase to becoming business partners and co-founders. Together, we explore:

💡 Whether you're in business with your partner or just want to communicate better, this episode is packed with practical advice, heartfelt moments, and real talk.

🔗 Learn more about Kyle & Ariel's work:

 https://kyleandariel.com/cplive

📲 Follow them on Instagram:

 https://instagram.com/couplepreneurs

DM the word “VISION” for their free Vision Date guide!

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Why is it so hard for couples to talk about sex and intimacy—even after years together?

In this powerful episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bullitt sit down with licensed therapist and intimacy expert Steph Flood to talk all things sex, shame, vulnerability, and communication in long-term relationships.

Steph has worked with over 1,000 couples, helping them reignite their intimacy and navigate issues like mismatched libidos, infidelity, low sex drive, and that all-too-common post-kid disconnect. She brings honesty, humor, and professional insight into one of the most vulnerable topics couples face.

💬 What We Cover in This Episode:

📌 Steph’s Top 3 Tips:

Have regular intimacy check-ins: "How’s this going for you?" goes a long way.

Practice daily affection: Hugs, touch, and physical closeness—not just sex—keep your bond strong.

Be honest about your needs before they turn into resentments. Vulnerability builds connection.

👩‍💻 More About Steph Flood:

Steph is a Nashville-based marriage and family therapist who offers virtual therapy, courses, and coaching for couples across the country.

📲 Find her at:

 🔗 Website: www.afloodoflove.com

📸 Instagram: @stephfloodoflove

💑 Hosted by Julie & David Bullitt

Julie is a licensed family therapist. David is a divorce and family lawyer. Married for 38 years, they've worked with couples through the toughest of times—and come out stronger.

📍 Chapters:

00:00 Welcome to the Podcast

02:00 Why Is Sex So Hard to Talk About?

06:40 Shame, Religion, and the Messages We Inherit

09:50 Common Points Where Couples Drift

12:20 How to Talk About Intimacy Without Blame

15:15 Post-Kids, Menopause, and Low Libido

20:00 When Porn Becomes a Problem

23:30 Communication Tools: Check-Ins, Affection & Honesty

28:10 Daily Touch & the “Are You Needing More?” Conversation

31:00 Safe Communication for When You Feel Disconnected

34:00 Steph’s Online Course & How to Work With Her

36:00 Final Takeaways

🔔 Subscribe to our podcast for honest conversations, helpful advice, and real-life stories about what it takes to make love last.

🎧 Listen to Conversations for Couples on Apple, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.

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In this episode of Conversations for Couples, we’re joined by Golden Bachelorette Joan Vassos and her fiancé Chock, the fan-favorite from The Golden Bachelor! 💛

It’s been a year since Joan left the Golden Bachelor and began a journey with Chuck—and now, they’re falling in love, managing life in different states, merging families, and navigating a relationship later in life. We dive into real-life love after 60, communication styles, intimacy, family blending, and how they’ve handled being in the spotlight while building something authentic.

🌟 In This Episode, We Discuss:

💬 Favorite Quotes:

➡️ "Do you want me to just listen or give my opinion?"

➡️ "You can be right, or you can be married."

➡️ "We make each other a priority—every single day."

🔗 Follow Joan & Chock

📸 Joan: @joan_vassos

📸 Chock: @chockchapple

💘 Show: The Golden Bachelor on ABC

📍 Chapters

00:00 Intro: Welcome Back to Conversations for Couples

01:30 Life After The Golden Bachelor

05:45 Long-Distance Love & Making It Fun

09:20 Merging Families for the Holidays

13:00 Building Trust & Blocking Out the Noise

17:45 Relationship Communication Styles: Rant or Remedy

23:00 Silver Bullets & Safe Talk – Handling Disagreements

28:50 Intimacy Later in Life: A Real Conversation

34:10 Spark, Closeness & What They’ve Learned

40:00 Parking Spot Drama & The Great Sock Debate

46:00 Dealing with Public Attention & Jealousy

51:00 Final Thoughts: Building a Love That Lasts

💌 We’re Julie & David Bullitt

🔹 Married 38 years, therapist & divorce attorney duo

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Welcome back to Conversations for Couples! Today, we're diving into the incredible love story of Dolly Parton and her husband, Carl Dean, who were married for nearly 60 years before his recent passing. 💔

Dolly and Carl had one of the most unique and private marriages in Hollywood history. They spent months apart, lived independent lives, and still remained deeply in love. What can we learn from their relationship? In this episode, we explore:

💘 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

How Dolly & Carl met at a laundromat in 1964

The story behind “Jolene” & Dolly’s famous response to the real-life woman

Why Carl never attended Dolly’s performances after the 1960s

How they balanced time apart & built a lasting relationship

The importance of secure attachment & trust in relationships

Why they chose not to have children and how they made that decision together

What made their love so strong despite their differences

✨ Resources & Links Mentioned:

🎶 Dolly Parton’s Official Website: https://dollyparton.com

📖 Dolly’s Book “Dolly: My Life and Other Unfinished Business”

💡 Read More About Attachment Styles: Attachment Theory Resource

🎧 Chapters:

00:00 Intro: Welcome Back to Conversations for Couples

01:20 How Dolly & Carl Met: A Love Story at the Laundromat

04:10 The Story Behind “Jolene” & Dolly’s Response to the Woman

07:30 Why Carl Dean Avoided the Spotlight for 50+ Years

10:45 The Secret to Their Long-Lasting Love: Time Apart & Trust

14:30 Secure Attachment & How It Strengthens Relationships

19:15 Why Dolly & Carl Chose to Be Child-Free

22:40 Independence & Connection: The Key to Their Happiness

27:10 Final Thoughts: What We Can Learn from Dolly & Dean

30:00 Share Your Thoughts: How Do You Balance Space & Connection?

💬 What do you think about Dolly & Carl’s relationship? Do you and your partner spend time apart? Let us know in the comments!

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Welcome back to Conversations for Couples! Today, we’re diving into the world of elite matchmaking with Kate O’Connor, a Vice President & Executive Matchmaker at Select Date Society. If you're tired of dating apps, looking for real connections, or ready for a fresh start in love, this episode is for you!

Kate shares insider secrets on matchmaking for high-net-worth individuals, overcoming dating fears, and building strong relationships that last. Whether it's your first, second, or third time looking for love, this episode is packed with dating wisdom, relationship insights, and expert advice to help you find your person.

💘 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

✨ Resources & Links Mentioned:

🔗 Select Date Society - Find a Match

🔗 Kate O’Connor on LinkedIn

🎧 Chapters:

00:00 Intro: Welcome Back to Conversations for Couples

01:05 Meet Kate O’Connor: Elite Matchmaker

04:10 What Does a Matchmaker Actually Do?

07:20 The Psychology of Dating: Attachment & Personality Types

12:35 Why High-Net-Worth Individuals Use Matchmakers

16:45 Overcoming Fear of Rejection & Past Relationship Trauma

22:15 The Truth About Dating “Checklists”

26:00 How to Naturally Flirt & Build Connection

30:40 Finding Love After Divorce or Loss

36:50 Kate’s Personal Love Story & What She Learned

42:10 How to Work with Kate & Select Date Society

45:30 Final Thoughts & Relationship Advice

💬 What’s your biggest dating challenge? Drop a comment below!

🔹 Website: SelectDateSociety.com

🔹 LinkedIn: Kate O’Connor - VIP Matchmaker

🔹 Instagram: @SelectDateSociety

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