The Japanese have a saying: ‘Nana korobi ya ok’- ‘Fall down seven times, get up eight.’

It is a poetic way to say that we learn more from losses than wins.

When we overlook the story of the ‘loser’ to fawn over the glory of the ‘winner', we often miss core ‘life lessons’ that can guide and improve our own journeys to success.

In professional combat sports, as soon as the result of the contest is announced, the vanquished is more often than not discarded. All eyes turn to the ‘champion’, the next great ‘hero’ to light up the stage.

Those who come second (in a two-man battle) have become accustomed to stepping down into the shadows, to lick their wounds, hide their shame, retreat into self doubt and, possibly, pity.

But not Modestas Bukauskus.

It is a tribute to this young man that he, within his darkest hours, has found the strength and courage to speak to us all about the heartbreak of his recent defeat in the cage.

No matter what life we lead, we can all learn from Mo’s humility, honesty, courage, resilience and his compassion to share what he has discovered about ‘broken dreams’ so that we may continue to keep chasing ours.

This is an interview I have enjoyed like no other. It is painful but ultimately hopeful.

This is the actual hero’s journey…

Until next time.

Lots of love.

Matt and the team x 😊🙏🏻🙏🏻

#UFC #MMA #Martial Arts

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