It is in the small things that we do and say, or even don't do that has the most impact, especially when done consistently, as they create habits. There is a saying: "That which you focus on expands"...Our focus is our attention, our time and, our thoughts. From these our physical, spiritual, and mental states; lifestyle, and well-being derives. Having a relationship with God requires our focus, as well as desire to have a relationship with him.