Is there a silver bullet for your business and/or your relationship? As Valentine's Day passes by yet again, we face the challenges of how to make it all work. Here's a hint: there's no such thing as a tool that does the work for you. But people keep seeking them out. But, whether we're talking about couples or commerce, the only way to make it work is to do the work. Buying tools is great, but tools don't do the work for you. So, where do pizza and extramarital affairs fit in all this?