This is just one of those things. You do everything in a business deal in good faith, and someone tries to work an angle when they don't have to. And it's going to cost money. But isn't handling all this together just part of being a coupleco? In fact, being a coupleco is about being gung ho. We have a story about couple so gung ho, not even an emergency C-section would stand in the way of their interview. (Of course, we decided another time would be better.) But in the end, it's all about one important question…