When a brave couple enters my office, after pleasantries, often the first thing that I ask is: 

“How do you folks feel about being here?” 

 A common response I get is: “I can’t believe we are here..” 

There is a sense of shame and failure - “what’s wrong with us??” 

And I totally get it. 

But the truth is: Nothing is wrong with you, in fact, it’s to be expected.

In this episdoe we begin to learn why.