#015: CREATING A FAMILY LEGACY

CREATING A FAMILY LEGACY

EPISODE #015

“Motherhood: All love begins and ends there.”

—Robert Browning

In this episode of The Confident Mom Podcast, we’re chatting about:

* What a family legacy is – the emotional, social and spiritual components of it.

* Probing thoughts on how to create a legacy and heritage that lasts and leaves an impact that matters

* Practical ways to create a legacy of memories that will unite your family more intimately

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CREATING A FAMILY LEGACY

From Focus on the Family: http://www.focusonthefamily.com/parenting/building-relationships/family-legacies/family-legacies-passing-on-a-legacy

No matter who we are, where we live, or what our goals may be, we all have one thing in common: a heritage. That is, a social, emotional and spiritual legacy passed on from parent to child. Every one of us is passed a heritage, lives out a heritage, and gives a heritage to our family. It's not an option. Parents always pass to their children a legacy … good, bad or some of both.

REFLECT UPON YOUR GIVEN LEGACY

What has been passed onto you that is positive? Know yourself, know your family legacy and take pride in it.

Me?

Maternal grandparents --- work ethic, passion for physical activity

Paternal grandparents --- large family gatherings, open door policy

Mother --- courage to do anything, belief in potential, unquenchable love for learning

Father --- easy going attitude and approach to life, no stress

Then, think about what legacy or generational tendencies you wish to put an end to.

Me?

Maternal grandparents --- scarcity mindset, sternness

Paternal grandparents --- gossip and careless spending

Mother --- fear based anxiety and perfectionism

Father --- not getting involved in things on a deep level

WHITE BOARD VISION CASTING

Create family mantra (je suis belle, “Synans are people who love everyone”)

Create family mission statement (work in progress)

Create family values (love, generosity, communication, connection, kindness, courage, integrity)

Create family traditions (celebratory picnics, surprise poems, mother’s day winery, family walks, Christmas morning baileys, family bedtime prayer)

Create family impact – what organizations matter to you? (our church, compassion, young life, water)

PRACTICAL WAYS TO CREATE A LEGACY IN TANGIBLE WAYS

Collect favorite family recipes

Created personalized photo albums