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Creating Goodwill
Creating Goodwill
Do you remember that time when someone helped you in your time of need? Did you feel lucky and blessed? What kind of feelings was present? How did you thank them? Do you remember that person often?
Have you helped someone in their time of need? How did you feel about it? Is it easy for you to remember that specific instance?
Have you noticed a warm feeling of thankfulness and goodwill emerging inside you in both the above cases? Don't you want this feeling to happen again and again?
We all crave social connection, and at a higher level, we need attachment and bonding. When someone helps us, our core values of love and security are met. It gives us satisfaction and happiness and generates fulfilment.
Our values are also something we exhibit. We unconsciously find ways to reciprocate the same feelings of love and security by helping others. When an opportunity presents itself, we go ahead and support people in need.
Creating goodwill is a human value. It is something that happens when we have a desire to serve. We become more significant than ourselves. We forget our egos, become selfless and give support and hope to people in need.
One can genuinely help and support another with complete dedication and positive motivation only when they are unselfish. They don't wish for anything in return and only want happiness for the other.
Have you known people to whom you can always go for help; people whom you trust; people who will not judge you? Don't you wish you can be like them?
Some people unconsciously create goodwill while others have to practice it. It comes when you genuinely become interested and curious about helping others in need. People don't want you to judge them because of their problems. Sometimes, just listening and understanding their situation is enough.
So what can you do:
* Practice Gratitude. Be thankful for all the people who were there for you in your difficult times.
* Practice helping others. It can be as simple as a phone call to a friend.
* Practice understanding your emotions in times of need. When you get help, how happy and satisfied you are. Can you create the same feelings for someone else?
* Practice active listening.
When we create goodwill, the world will become a better place. There is also a famous saying about this subject, "People will forget what you say, but they will always remember how you made them feel".
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Share this message with your friends
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Chander Shankar
NLP Coach and Mentor
Enkindle and Empower Pty Ltd
http://www.enkindleandempower.com/
New messages shared every day by 8 AM Sydney Time.
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By Chander ShankarCreating Goodwill
Do you remember that time when someone helped you in your time of need? Did you feel lucky and blessed? What kind of feelings was present? How did you thank them? Do you remember that person often?
Have you helped someone in their time of need? How did you feel about it? Is it easy for you to remember that specific instance?
Have you noticed a warm feeling of thankfulness and goodwill emerging inside you in both the above cases? Don't you want this feeling to happen again and again?
We all crave social connection, and at a higher level, we need attachment and bonding. When someone helps us, our core values of love and security are met. It gives us satisfaction and happiness and generates fulfilment.
Our values are also something we exhibit. We unconsciously find ways to reciprocate the same feelings of love and security by helping others. When an opportunity presents itself, we go ahead and support people in need.
Creating goodwill is a human value. It is something that happens when we have a desire to serve. We become more significant than ourselves. We forget our egos, become selfless and give support and hope to people in need.
One can genuinely help and support another with complete dedication and positive motivation only when they are unselfish. They don't wish for anything in return and only want happiness for the other.
Have you known people to whom you can always go for help; people whom you trust; people who will not judge you? Don't you wish you can be like them?
Some people unconsciously create goodwill while others have to practice it. It comes when you genuinely become interested and curious about helping others in need. People don't want you to judge them because of their problems. Sometimes, just listening and understanding their situation is enough.
So what can you do:
* Practice Gratitude. Be thankful for all the people who were there for you in your difficult times.
* Practice helping others. It can be as simple as a phone call to a friend.
* Practice understanding your emotions in times of need. When you get help, how happy and satisfied you are. Can you create the same feelings for someone else?
* Practice active listening.
When we create goodwill, the world will become a better place. There is also a famous saying about this subject, "People will forget what you say, but they will always remember how you made them feel".
*************************************
Share this message with your friends
https://chat.whatsapp.com/GioeEB7Osfz0VbeDO9cTba
*************************************
Chander Shankar
NLP Coach and Mentor
Enkindle and Empower Pty Ltd
http://www.enkindleandempower.com/
New messages shared every day by 8 AM Sydney Time.
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