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Creating Space for Difficult Conversations (with Lorrey Arial Bonilla)
Host Christi Scarrow and Lorrey Arial Bonilla, Executive Director at ECCDC, discuss key lessons in leadership, emphasizing the importance of relationships, networking, and work-life balance. She highlights the need for strong communications with boards, staff, funders, and stakeholders, and the value of seeking external support to avoid isolation. Lorrey stresses the importance of resiliency, time management, and prioritizing tasks to prevent burnout. She also underscores the significance of regular goal-setting meetings and open dialogues to understand staff needs and improve engagement. Finally, she advises on recognizing staff efforts through various forms of appreciation to foster a supportive and motivated team.
Action Items
-Send thank you cards as a form of recognition.
-Identify and model a work-life balance
-Look for new ways to connect and acknowledge your team members
Outline
Early Lessons in Leadership
-Lorrey shares her extensive experience at ECCDC, having been with the organization for 28 years and in her current position for nine years.
-Lorrey identifies three key lessons: the importance of relationships, networking, and work-life balance.
The Importance of Relationships
-Lorrey emphasizes the significance of strong relationships with the board, staff, funders, and stakeholders.
-She highlights the need for respectful, transparent, and responsive relationships with stakeholders.
-Lorrey discusses the importance of networking and seeking support from peers and colleagues in similar roles.
-Christi reinforces the value of networking, sharing her own experience of not prioritizing it enough in her corporate role.
Balancing Work and Life
-Lorrey identifies work-life balance as a crucial lesson, emphasizing the need to prioritize and manage time effectively.
-She discusses the challenges of avoiding the habit of working late and the importance of modeling a healthy work-life balance for staff.
-Christi agrees, noting the tendency for purpose-driven organizations to require long hours, which can lead to burnout.
-Lorrey mentions the need to trust staff to manage their own workload and not to fall into the routine of working late regularly.
Staffing Challenges and Solutions
-Lorrey identifies staffing as a significant challenge, focusing on recognizing and leveraging staff strengths and interests.
-She discusses the balance between creating independent work environments and providing necessary support and coaching.
-Christi acknowledges the common struggle with staffing and asks for Lorrey's insights on when to step in and when to step back.
-Lorrey emphasizes the importance of regular goal-setting meetings and open dialog to understand staff needs and provide appropriate support.
Recognition and Support Strategies
-Lorrey highlights the importance of recognizing staff efforts through various means, from quick emails to formal celebrations.
-She provides examples of different recognition strategies, including thank-you cards, team gatherings, and raffles for time off.
-Christi shares a personal example of receiving a thank-you card from Lorrey, emphasizing the impact of small gestures.
-Lorrey advises being kind and patient to oneself, taking baby steps, and viewing challenges as learning opportunities rather than personal setbacks.
Final Thoughts and Advice
-Lorrey encourages managers to look for new ways to connect with staff and recognize their efforts in meaningful ways.
-She emphasizes the importance of being open to challenges and learning from them.
-Christi thanks Lorrey for her insights and advice, and encourages listeners to find resources on navigating leadership challenges.
-The conversation concludes with mutual appreciation and well-wishes.
Useful Links
Host: Christi's Web Page
Guest: ECCDC
Lighthouse NINE Group: Web page
Contributors
Music: All The Fixings by Zachariah Hickman
Editing: tribe74
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By Christi ScarrowHost Christi Scarrow and Lorrey Arial Bonilla, Executive Director at ECCDC, discuss key lessons in leadership, emphasizing the importance of relationships, networking, and work-life balance. She highlights the need for strong communications with boards, staff, funders, and stakeholders, and the value of seeking external support to avoid isolation. Lorrey stresses the importance of resiliency, time management, and prioritizing tasks to prevent burnout. She also underscores the significance of regular goal-setting meetings and open dialogues to understand staff needs and improve engagement. Finally, she advises on recognizing staff efforts through various forms of appreciation to foster a supportive and motivated team.
Action Items
-Send thank you cards as a form of recognition.
-Identify and model a work-life balance
-Look for new ways to connect and acknowledge your team members
Outline
Early Lessons in Leadership
-Lorrey shares her extensive experience at ECCDC, having been with the organization for 28 years and in her current position for nine years.
-Lorrey identifies three key lessons: the importance of relationships, networking, and work-life balance.
The Importance of Relationships
-Lorrey emphasizes the significance of strong relationships with the board, staff, funders, and stakeholders.
-She highlights the need for respectful, transparent, and responsive relationships with stakeholders.
-Lorrey discusses the importance of networking and seeking support from peers and colleagues in similar roles.
-Christi reinforces the value of networking, sharing her own experience of not prioritizing it enough in her corporate role.
Balancing Work and Life
-Lorrey identifies work-life balance as a crucial lesson, emphasizing the need to prioritize and manage time effectively.
-She discusses the challenges of avoiding the habit of working late and the importance of modeling a healthy work-life balance for staff.
-Christi agrees, noting the tendency for purpose-driven organizations to require long hours, which can lead to burnout.
-Lorrey mentions the need to trust staff to manage their own workload and not to fall into the routine of working late regularly.
Staffing Challenges and Solutions
-Lorrey identifies staffing as a significant challenge, focusing on recognizing and leveraging staff strengths and interests.
-She discusses the balance between creating independent work environments and providing necessary support and coaching.
-Christi acknowledges the common struggle with staffing and asks for Lorrey's insights on when to step in and when to step back.
-Lorrey emphasizes the importance of regular goal-setting meetings and open dialog to understand staff needs and provide appropriate support.
Recognition and Support Strategies
-Lorrey highlights the importance of recognizing staff efforts through various means, from quick emails to formal celebrations.
-She provides examples of different recognition strategies, including thank-you cards, team gatherings, and raffles for time off.
-Christi shares a personal example of receiving a thank-you card from Lorrey, emphasizing the impact of small gestures.
-Lorrey advises being kind and patient to oneself, taking baby steps, and viewing challenges as learning opportunities rather than personal setbacks.
Final Thoughts and Advice
-Lorrey encourages managers to look for new ways to connect with staff and recognize their efforts in meaningful ways.
-She emphasizes the importance of being open to challenges and learning from them.
-Christi thanks Lorrey for her insights and advice, and encourages listeners to find resources on navigating leadership challenges.
-The conversation concludes with mutual appreciation and well-wishes.
Useful Links
Host: Christi's Web Page
Guest: ECCDC
Lighthouse NINE Group: Web page
Contributors
Music: All The Fixings by Zachariah Hickman
Editing: tribe74