Every couple has a rhythm when it comes to communication—but what happens when one of you needs to talk it out right away and the other needs time to stew on it?

In this episode of 3 with Bri, Bri shares how a car ride disagreement turned into a powerful analogy that transformed her marriage: she’s a “microwave” processor, and her husband Josh is a “crockpot.” Together, they’ve learned how to honor both communication styles and keep decision-making calm, connected, and (mostly) conflict-free—even with three kids in the mix.

If you’ve ever wondered why your conversations with your partner feel mismatched in speed or style, this episode will give you language, insight, and encouragement to find your own balance between “crockpot” and “microwave” moments.