Last week, I spoke of the need to have a couple of crucial conversations of my own. There is one in particular that is long overdue with a family member.  I have vacillated between clearing the air and being irritated by the fact that I cannot think of any specific crime that I could have committed to have this person basically ignore me. I went from complete heartbreak and confusion to anger and indifference. None of those things have made the situation any better. The needle has not moved. So where to begin?