No parent ever dreams that their child might experiment with drugs, alcohol or some other dangerous activity. But the reality is, it happens every day. So how can we see past the crushing feelings of grief or betrayal, and help our teens get to a better place?

Once you’ve discovered the truth about your child’s behavior, let it sink in for a few days, and give yourself time to pray and seek counsel.

Then, as soon as you’re ready, confront the issue with your teen. I recommend setting up three separate meetings to expose problems, express feelings, and discuss expectations.

Finally, trust that God will give direction as you walk along the path of this conflict. He promises to stay by your side every step of the way.

If you listen on a mobile phone or tablet, please download our Parenting Today’s Teens app available for Apple or Android. If you listen on a desktop or laptop computer, press the “play” button above to enjoy daily parenting advice.