Marriage. Holy Shit. No one really tells you how hard it actually is. You just have to experience it and live to tell the tale. Parenting is a hell of a lot easier when you have a good foundation with your partner. These are three things that have helped me in my two years (go ahead and laugh at me if you've been married for 25 years lol) of marriage. And how I choose to overcome some of our issues that we have had.