Its cuffing season and you've met someone. You want to swoon, and things are going pretty well... I mean after all, there are signs around every corner that this is going to turn into something. 

But then, out of nowhere you get this nagging feeling, "Is this the real thing or am I just wasting away" 

We’ve all stayed with people we know aren’t right for us but choose to ignore the gut feeling. Yet at the same time all of these posts are popping up in insta and reddit and are shouting things that "could" fit, but couldn't it fit with everyone? They are triggering and can miscommunicate real pieces that are masked. 

Yet, on the other hand, we all have stay because it’s easier than being alone, we “should” like the other person, or we’re worried there won’t be anyone else. Maybe this person checks all the boxes, and mom and dad love him! But there’s just something missing. 

You know the breakup cliché “it’s not you; it’s me?” Well, sometimes, it’s not you, but it’s not me either; it’s the “us” that doesn’t work. Chemistry is unpredictable, and compatibility (or incompatibility) isn’t always something you can anticipate in life, in relationships or in business. It’s difficult to know something’s missing when you can’t put your finger on what it is, that's why we did this. 

The beginning of this conversation was an actual one with a girlfriend and fellow coach. We often have these back and forth around the frustration of the miscommunication many of the Insta posts we see. So, I decided that it was time to clear the cobwebs. After all, you shouldn't go into cuffing season without a smattering of understanding.