Concluding the series on healthy relational bonds(attachments) that produce spiritual growth and maturity, we will consider the last 7 of the twelve facets of healthy attachments from Dr. Jim Wilder's book, "Renovated." These seven are: 6. Mutual Mind 7. Strengthened by moving both closer and apart 8. Handles both pleasant and unpleasant emotions relationally 9. Helps us stably be ourselves 10. We feel both connected and free 11. Stretches us to grow and 12. Creates an identity group(my people).