Dad Talks - LIVE! - The Being Dads Podcast

Dr. Alain Desaulniers wants to live in a world where great coffee is enjoyed together, emails are short, hugs are long and story- telling is a daily ritual.

As a doctor of chiropractic, Tony Robbins Robbins-Madanes certified coach, international speaker and educator, he's been featured on numerous podcasts, has been applauded on stages big and small the whole world over and has been honoured to share the platform with some of the brightest minds in health, influence and personal development.

He is the founder and lead trainer at TribeX, where he leads his signature program, The TRANSFORM Speaking Academy, featuring his unique 'Lighthouse Story Method', helping chiropractors and health experts tell their story, explode their impact and income through world-class transformational communication and speaking.
He lives in West Vancouver, BC, Canada

Thomas DeSchutter & Ryan Yada

Summary

The conversation explores the themes of unity, oneness, and the balance between masculine and feminine energies. It delves into the idea that there are multiple ways to raise children and the importance of knowing oneself and responding authentically. The discussion also touches on the concept of triggers and how to quickly return to a state of self-awareness and authenticity. The conversation highlights the interconnectedness of all beings and the lessons that can be learned from those closest to us. The conversation explores the importance of open communication, connection, and co-creation in relationships and parenting. It emphasizes the need to be authentic, share our truth, and create a safe space for dialogue. The speakers discuss the power of being an example and the impact of connection and dialogue in raising children. They also touch on the importance of accepting and reframing experiences, as well as the value of noticing, naming, and accepting emotions. The conversation concludes with a reflection on the awe-inspiring moments of unity and shared experiences.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Setting the Stage

01:59 Exploring the Balance of Masculine and Feminine Energies

06:18 The Power of Truth and Authenticity

09:26 Understanding Different Perspectives in Parenting

27:59 The Power of Open Communication and Connection

39:20 Teaching Discernment and Navigating Different Truths

45:44 Creating Shared Experiences and Co-Creating

55:38 Noticing, Naming, and Accepting Emotions

Sound Bites:

"Education leads to empowerment in many cases."

"Helping kids become the leaders of their own lives."

"Teaching kids emotional intelligence and how to deal with their feelings and emotions."

"Sometimes I've got to say no. Like I know I said, I don't want to always say no, but there's things that it's just no, you're not doing that."

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction

01:40 Personal Experiences with Education and Empowerment

04:45 The Connection Between Education and Empowerment

10:23 Supporting Children's Education: Understanding and Emotional Intelligence

22:19 Teaching Life Skills for Empowerment

25:46 The Lifelong Journey of Education and Empowerment

28:19 Introduction and Dancing BCAA Logo

31:23 Maintaining Connection and Emotional Intelligence

36:10 Continuous Personal Growth and Education

44:39 Self-Reflection and Taking Responsibility

48:30 Empowerment Through Education

53:12 Awareness of Potential Pitfalls

56:51 Collaboration Between Parents

59:03 Impact of the Conversation

Building Keystone Habits for a Better Life Choosing Sustainable Habits for Long-Term Success

Sound Bites

"Start from that place of passion."

"Small changes can lead to significant results."

"There's a magic number of 40 push-ups."

"You're kind of unpicking boxes at the end of the life."

"Whatever works exactly. And tracking I think is good because then you remember it."

"It's amazing how much you can talk about pushups, but how would it actually represent, right, in someone's life."

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Setting the Stage

07:58 The Power of Commitment and Consistency in Daily Habits

24:53 Triggers, Rewards, and Maintaining Consistency

28:32 The Impact of Daily Habits on Our Lives

30:54 Self-Commitment and Self-Discipline in Daily Habits

31:24 The Power of Noticing and Questioning Our Habits

39:05 Choosing Sustainable and Adaptable Habits

44:01 The Importance of Self-Reflection and Self-Awareness

49:50 Making Choices that Align with Our Values

Keywords

daily habits, consistency, commitment, starting small, keystone habits, subconscious programs, habits, awareness, sustainability, curiosity, self-reflection, modeling

Live! Every Thursday, 6am Pacific on various socials.

Summary

In this conversation, Ryan and Thomas discuss their new podcast and their experiences as fathers and husbands. They reflect on their own journeys and the lessons they have learned along the way. They also explore the importance of being a good role model for their children and the impact their actions have on their relationships. The conversation is filled with personal anecdotes and insights into the challenges and joys of fatherhood. The conversation explores the role of being a father and the influence it has on children. It begins with a discussion about the lack of degrees or titles associated with being a father, but emphasizes the importance of family history and the example set by previous generations. The conversation then delves into the story of Ryan's great uncle Arthur, who took his wife's last name and became a successful businessman. This leads to a reflection on the responsibility of being a father and the impact it has on children's lives. The conversation concludes with a discussion on the different roles and responsibilities of fathers with sons and daughters. In this final part of the conversation, Ryan and Thomas discuss the importance of being a positive example and the impact it has on others. They talk about the responsibility they feel as fathers and husbands to set a good example for their children and friends. They also discuss the importance of active listening and validating others' experiences. They share their desire to improve their ability to listen and not get triggered in disagreements. The conversation ends with some lighthearted banter about their video setup.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Technical Setup

08:07 The Value of Listening to Others' Thought Processes

15:10 The Influence of Family and Observing Others

31:10 The Different Roles of Fathers with Sons and Daughters

46:19 The Power of Being a Positive Example

52:52 Improving Listening Skills in Disagreements

01:03:16 Ending on a Lighthearted Note