Dear Rebecca and Burns,

I'm a senior in college and I quit social media two months ago because I was spending too much time on it. But now I feel like an outsider with my group of friends. They have inside jokes that I'm not in on and I've even missed a party because the invite was on an Instagram message and no one remembered to tell me about it.

My feelings are hurt, and I'm confused because I feel like social media is harmful and that I'm doing the right thing.