Dear Rebecca and Burns,
A friend of mine recently told me that I have a habit of correcting people when they use improper grammar or bad manners. She said this after I told her to put her napkin on her lap. She was offended, which I don't understand. If someone doesn't tell people when they use bad grammar or manners, how will they learn? I don't want to be rude; I just want to help.
What do you think?