Dear Rebecca and Burns,

I am 34-years-old and have been married for a year. Although we didn't talk about it a whole lot, I went into the marriage believing my now husband wanted kids. He recently told me that can't imagine bringing a child into this world and wants to take permanent measures to make sure it can't happen. I am devastated--I've wanted to be a mother my whole life.

I can't imagine staying married because I'll resent him for the rest of my life. What should I do?