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In this video I discuss with Dr. Fiona Girkin, a specialist in female psychopaths and their traits, the dark reality of psychopaths, exploring the complexities of psychopathy how it can manifest differently in men and women. She shares insights into her research journey and what initially sparked her interest in this area, discussing the nuances of psychopathy. 

We look at the dark tetrad, which includes psychopathy, narcissism, Machiavellianism, and sadism, which is a fascinating yet unsettling topic that sheds light on the callous and antisocial tendencies of individuals with psychopathic personalities.

Female psychopathy, in particular, is often misunderstood or overlooked, but we discuss how female psychopaths can be found in various settings, including the workplace, where they may use their charm and charisma to manipulate and exploit colleagues and achieve their goals.

By exploring the intricacies of female psychopathy, Dr. Girkin aims to raise awareness about the warning signs of psychopathic behaviour and the importance of recognising the manipulation and exploitation that can occur in both personal and professional relationships. This video is a must-watch for anyone interested in understanding the psychology of psychopaths and the impact of their behaviour on others.

Dr Girkin's channel: https://www.youtube.com/ ⁨@DrFionaGirkin⁩  
Podcast: leadershipshenanigans.podbean.com 

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Mark Beare joins me to explore the complex and often devastating effects of narcissism and narcissistic abuse, and the journey towards emotional healing and recovery. We discuss his work on Mirrored Psychic Inversion Theory (MPIT), and his work with Sam Vaknin. As a survivor of a toxic relationship, it's common to experience a breakdown, both emotionally and mentally, due to the manipulative tactics of gaslighting and emotional manipulation.

However, with the right support and mindset, it's possible to start the trauma healing process and begin moving on from the abuse. The healing journey is not an easy one, but it's a necessary step towards regaining control over your mental health and well-being. By understanding the dynamics of narcissistic abuse and the impact it has on your life, you can start to rebuild and rediscover yourself, and ultimately, find the strength to move forward and start a new chapter in your life.

Mark's Books:
Narcissistic Redeemer: 
https://www.amazon.com/Narcissistic-Redeemer-Bringing-Collapse-Inversion/dp/B0FMQW2QH3

The Organising Gate and the reconstruction of reality after Narcissistic Abuse: 
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Organising-Gate-Reconstruction-Narcissistic-Inversion/dp/B0GHJZGFSK

Academical Work:
https://www.confmeets.com/journals/jppc/articles_in_process/mirrored-psychic-inversion-theory-the-anticipatory-stress-reflex-as-the-organising-gate-of-reality

Tiktok:
https://www.tiktok.com/@r_mpi?_r=1&_t=ZN-968wDShoAXG

YouTube: 
https://youtube.com/@MPI-THEORY?si=kX5u3bwJ4ovG7A1r

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Have you ever found yourself pouring emotional energy into helping people only to see them resist any real change? Looking at the Rescue Dilemma through Karpman's Drama Triangle, Melody Beattie's book 'CoDependent No More' and both classical and operant conditioning, this video explores the frustration of trying to assist individuals who consistently make choices that hinder their progress. 

Despite offering help, they remain unhappy, highlighting a deep-seated resistance to change and the strain it puts on other people's mental health.

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Amber Hollingsworth is an expert in working with individuals and families facing challenges with addiction. With over two decades of experience, Amber brings valuable insights into topics like the nature of addiction, relapse and how to break an addiction. Her work includes founding Hope for Families Recovery Consultants and hosting a recovery podcast, offering support and guidance to those on the path to sobriety.

In this conversation we discuss the nature of addiction,  not only from the perspective of the addict but also to the loved ones around them, dispelling a few myths and practical ideas to help with recovery.

Amber's Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@UCT8PE1v0xFR9zLXOijxM6hg 

familyrecoveryacademy.online 

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Tegan Osmond and I discuss the hidden reality of narcissistic workplaces and how some professional environments can develop cult-like dynamics driven by manipulation, group psychology, and workplace mobbing.

Throughout this conversation, we explore psychological insights into outsider targeting, group conformity, manipulation tactics, and the emotional impact of prolonged workplace harassment. If you have ever felt isolated, unfairly targeted, or confused by sudden shifts in workplace dynamics, this discussion may help you better understand what could be happening beneath the surface.

For more information on workplace mobbing and bullying check out Tegan's channel at https://www.youtube.com/@TheTeganOsmondChannel 

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In this seminar I break down the hidden dynamics of the narcissistic family system and how it often operates like a cult-like environment.

You’ll learn how narcissistic family roles develop, from the matriarch or patriarch to the golden child, scapegoat, and other key roles that shape behaviour and identity. Exploring how narcissistic parents use emotional control, manipulation, and conditional love to maintain power within the family.

This talk also dives into the long-term effects of narcissistic abuse, including trauma, people-pleasing, and loss of self, and offers insight into how to break free from toxic family patterns, rebuild confidence, and move forward.

If you’ve ever questioned your family dynamics or struggled with toxic relationships, this will help you understand what’s really happening and how to heal.

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Like many other professions, Artificial Intelligence is rapidly entering the world of mental health, but can AI really replace human therapists?

In this in-depth discussion, we explore the limits of AI therapy, the risks and benefits of using artificial intelligence in psychotherapy, and why the human connection remains central to real healing.

Dr. Philip Sarpong, a clinical psychologist, shares a balanced perspective on AI in mental health. We discuss:

• Can AI replace therapists
• The pros and cons of AI therapy
• AI as a tool vs AI as a therapist
• Emotional regulation and human connection
• The therapeutic relationship and why it matters
• Loneliness in the digital age
• The future of psychotherapy in an AI world

While AI can offer accessible support tools such as journaling prompts, mood tracking, and mindfulness exercises, therapy outcomes consistently show that the therapeutic alliance, the relationship between therapist and client, is one of the strongest predictors of healing.

As technology evolves, we ask a deeper question: Are we engineering convenience at the cost of connection?

If you are interested in psychology, mental health, artificial intelligence, digital wellness, and the future of therapy, this conversation will give you a thoughtful, honest perspective on where AI fits, and where it does not.

Subscribe for more conversations on psychology, resilience, mental health, and navigating cultural and technological shifts.

Dr Sarpong's channel https://www.youtube.com/@philsguidetopsyd

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Traumatic Cognitive Dissonance with Dr Peter Salerno

Why does narcissistic abuse leave you feeling confused, stuck, and disconnected from your own reality?

In this in-depth conversation, Dr Peter Salerno, retired licensed psychotherapist and clinical psychologist, explains traumatic cognitive dissonance, a psychological state that develops through intentional manipulation, coercive control, and pathological abuse.

This episode explores how narcissistic relationships distort belief systems, create internal conflict, and keep survivors trapped in cycles of self doubt, rumination, and emotional paralysis.

Dr Salerno's Youtube Channel
https://www.youtube.com/@DrPeterSalerno 

Dr Salerno's website
https://www.drpetersalerno.com/ 

Traumatic Cognitive Dissonance: Healing From An Abusive Relationship With A Disordered Personality 
https://amzn.eu/d/05Tcg9F1 

Cruelty by Nature The Science of Intentional Abuse
https://amzn.eu/d/033mltJW 

The Nature and Nurture of Narcissism: Understanding Narcissistic Personality Disorder from the Perspective of Gene
https://amzn.eu/d/0eI3Esck 

Thought Detox: 77 Days of Quotes & Reflections to Challenge and Eliminate Negative Thinking Habits
https://amzn.eu/d/0fiuTToN

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This is part two of a conversation with Sara Crouson, host of the YouTube channel Cluster B Milkshake. Sara has diagnoses of Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Anti-social Personality Disorder, ADHD and Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. She also has Schizoid and paranoid traits.

We discuss narcissism, psychopathy, predatory behaviour and how these things manifest in day to life, as well as in her relationships and interactions.

Among other things we also address infidelity, envy, lack of remorse, narcissism and social media and the true nature of an apology from a narcissist.

Please be advised, it is a candid and often frank discussion, so be warned there is some explicit language and descriptions.

Watch on Youtube https://youtu.be/Ugj48rCKEbA

Part one of our discussion to can be found here: https://youtu.be/FHVnGNEO9HU 

Sara's channel can be found at: https://www.youtube.com/@UC7mkAC2N4PqlGqXfBJMyqCA 

0:00:00 Intro
0:01:12 Narcissism and Social Media
0:04:33 Bereavement
0:05:54 Need for chaos
0:07:06 Doing vs Being
0:09:49 Building Self Awareness
0:15:25 Narcissistic Apology
0:18:10 Paranoia
0:19:46 Projection
0:22:00 I won't give you closure
0:25:00 Trying to change
0:27:50 Real vs Ideal
0:32:45 The False Self
0:35:15 Constant need for attention
0:38:51 Push Pull in relationships
0:41:15 Malicious or Maladaptive?
0:47:44 Radical Acceptance
0:49:00 Change in tactics to manipulate
0:50:50 Affairs
0:54:10 Intent and Consistency to Change
1:03:15 I am the victim

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Why do narcissists seem so charming in public yet so cruel and manipulative in private? In this video we look at how narcissists use impression management to fool entire rooms of people. We explore why they make such powerful first impressions, how they use charisma, flattery, stories, and confidence to reel people in, and why so many of us fall for it again even when we know better.

Narcissistic people need validation. They need an audience. They shape a public persona that looks kind, witty, confident, and altruistic. Behind closed doors the mask drops. If you have ever wondered why everyone else seems to love the narcissist while you carry the wounds of their sarcasm, put downs, and emotional manipulation, this video will help you understand the two faces of narcissism.

You will learn about narcissistic supply, public vs private behavior, transactional charisma, and why narcissists are experts at reading social cues and crafting exactly the image they want others to see.

If you have ever questioned your reality or felt confused by how easily others fall for the narcissist, this insight will help you make sense of what you lived.

From the livestream 'How Enablers Fuel Narcissists'
https://youtube.com/live/58LymIZ51Nw 

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