In this special episode of Big Hearted Indy, hosts Don Palmer, Chris Spangle, and Greg Enas welcome executive coaches Darren Ho and Wes Cate for a deep conversation on how men can grow into lives of meaning, purpose, and impact. They discuss how personal character shapes leadership, marriage, and community life—and why coaching, mentorship, and friendship are essential for flourishing in today’s world.

Through vulnerable stories and practical insights, Wes and Darren explore how to navigate life’s inflection points, build habits of presence and rest, and stay grounded in identity while leading others. The group also introduces two new cohort groups launching this fall through Citizen 7, designed to help men grow in marriage, family, and transitions.

🕒 Chapters:

00:00 – Introduction: A New Season of Big Hearted Indy

02:10 – Don on “Zinger Questions” That Shape Us

06:04 – Meet Wes Cate: From Curiosity to Coaching

10:45 – Darren Ho’s Cross-Cultural Story and Calling

18:40 – Coaching Men Through Change and Isolation

23:58 – What Is a Core Value and Why It Matters

29:15 – Dealing with Burnout, Overwhelm, and Character Gaps

34:30 – Coaching vs. Mentoring: Key Differences

38:05 – How to Ask for Mentorship Without Pressure

42:20 – Cohorts Preview: Marriage, Career, and Life Transitions

48:00 – The Mistakes That Hold Men Back

50:00 – Daily Habits to Cultivate Presence and Reflection

54:12 – Why Rest and Delight Are Non-Negotiable

58:35 – Flourishing in Male-Female Partnerships

1:03:10 – How to Get Involved with Citizen Seven

🔗 Learn more: https://citizen7indy.com

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